Sunday, February 20, 2005

His Hobbies reflect his Personality?

What his hobbies reveal about him! (Reference: http://women.msn.com/1016212.armx) A gourmet cook Whether he's into prepping a four-star meal, gardening, shopping or interior decorating, your metrosexual guy is a sensualist. After all, the cook who is willing to simmer a sauce to perfection will likely bring you to a boil as well. "Guys who enjoy metrosexual activities are detail-oriented," says Schwartz, so he'll notice your fresh haircut or new shoes. The flip side? He also might notice a new dimple of cellulite or emerging crow's-feet. "Just make sure he doesn't take details to an extreme," says Kate Wachs, Ph.D., author of "Relationships for Dummies." "No one wants a guy who can inventory your flaws quicker than you can." A sci-fi fanatic The Trekkie or "Lord of the Rings" groupie has his advantages: "Given the strong themes of morality and justice in the sci-fi world, he's more likely to apply that code to his life," say Ian Kerner, Ph.D., Lifetime's relationship expert and author of "She Comes First: The Thinking Man's Guide to Pleasuring a Woman." And his love of fantasy can lead to more creativity in bed! "But be aware that some people use escapism for a reason," adds Dr. Wachs. "They're not very good at dealing with reality, period." Ask why he likes the genre and let that determine if you're destined for a mind meld. A woodworker He's great with his hands. Need we say more? "This guy is innovative and likes to take care of others," says Schwartz. "He'll often express his feelings through projects around your house." For example, if he installs a light fixture, he wants to take it to the next level; if he builds you a deck, expect a marriage proposal. "He's more about actions than emotions," says Wachs. In other words, if you're a romantic wine-and-roses gal, Handy Man may not have the right tools for you. A sports junkie Yes, there's some truth to the whole sports widow myth. But that's only half the story. "Whether he's a player or fan, these guys are social and easy to reach emotionally," says Schwartz. They're team players by nature, and men who are OK with slapping each other on the butt are generally comfortable showing affection. Another bonus is that these sorts often use watching or playing as a way to vent excess aggression. Bottom line? Tough guys on the field, teddy bears on the sidelines. A political hound Surprise! Mr. Politics can make for a not-so-strange bedfellow: "They're very passionate men," says Kerner. Careful though -- these fellas tend to see everything in black or white, making them prone to arguments. He'll often try to sway you to his way of thinking, but if you can stand your ground, the debate can be exciting foreplay. "Plus, they're often moral and willing to admit their mistakes," says Kerner. A man willing to fess up that he's wrong? Now that's the ticket. A gambling man "He can be a lot of fun -- if his proclivity for gambling is kept in check," says Kerner, who notes that the going-for-broke guy's spontaneity and risk-taking can keep the relationship exciting. "The gambler is sexy because he has bad-boy appeal," says Wachs. That said, he may be prone to gamble outside of the tables, too. "He might have an inclination to cheat since he likes to live on the edge," she says. And that's one trait that's never worth betting on.
Well, I came across this type of guy. A very old friend of mine, actually.. he was a professional gambler, someone who goes to international water to gamble daily and win a few hundreds a day. IT's enough, he says.. And his relationship? He started cheating since 1995! Damn it! He's only 28 years old hor...
An outdoorsy dude Girl, any man that waits on a fish to bite has enough patience to cool his heels while you try on dozens of outfits at the mall. He's the real deal: "Outdoorsmen are comfortable in their own skin," says Schwartz. So support his fresh air streak with an overnight camping jaunt. (Think skinny dipping, sleeping bags and S'mores.) "But you're in for trouble if you can't fake granola girl on occasion," says Wachs. "Often these guys want a no-makeup, no-fuss kind of partner." So if you have even a touch of Zsa Zsa, air-kiss and say so long. A cinema snob Film aficionados have an ear for dialogue that can make them more communicative. "He's romantic, imaginative and willing to lose himself for hours," says Schwartz. As long as he doesn't eat popcorn in bed, you've got the makings of the perfect partner. "Just be sure that, like other escapism-prone hobbies, he's not fleeing reality for a reason," cautions Wachs. In other words, head for the nearest exit if he spends too much time in front of the screen -- or worse, tells you that "you had him at hello." A gym nut The good news: "Men who work out a lot have a strong libido because of the endorphins and increased blood flow to the genitals," says Kerner. The bad news: Mr. Muscle often has expectations that far exceed his neck size. "A lot of workout fiends demand perfection of themselves and the people around them," says Schwartz. But if it's truly just a pastime and he keeps it light (say, no more than an hour a day), Workout Guy can be a great boyfriend -- with the bonus of washboard abs! A game addict Sure, he scores huge on Halo, but how does he measure up in the bedroom? "Guys who enjoy computer activities are less personal in relationships and need more time and space to themselves," says Schwartz. That can be a perk because he won't mind if you ditch him for a night out with the girls. Still, if you start resenting his love affair with his console, it may be time to call it game over.
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